SEX, LOVE AND INFATUATION

HI.

Hi young girls i have issues with young people escipecially adolecsent boys and girls. 

well who said that in order for you to know that you are loved you have to have sex with your partner?. what really pisses me off is the fact of seeing young girls and boys having sex  like it a normal thing yet we are all saying that we have chilled. 

I understand there is no age putted aside that when you reach that certain age thats when you are suppose to have sex, hi lets be logical a girl or a boy who is still in class seven claims he or she is old enough to have sex simply becouse he is watching all this romantic movies or soap operas. thats bullshit, and the sad part is that even if you tell that girl/boy that what she/he thinks is love isnt love but just a puppy love he/she denies it, saying that even if her boyfreind has other girlfreinds, that she is the real one who is loved and not the other one, and that the other one is one who is being kept as a substitute, honestly i pity them i always say sex is something psychological that what my leader always tells me which is true, you can switch it on and off anytime and when the right time comes then go ahead and try a safe one, just to be on the safe side and that is when you have complited your education and you are able to make your own dicissions atleast a the age of 22 and above, that way you can be employed and you have atleast some of your goals acieved. so when maybe there are some consequences you can adjust and cope with them e.g pregnancy.

lets be responsible its our life and you can never take life backwards never. lets avoid this small mistakes that costs us our lifes when its still early and we all enjoy life.

RAPIST

hi everyone?
well just the other day one of my friends was raped, and not oinly her but even other neighbour. i gez that is the most hurting thing in the world. how can one be so cruel. and when i try to ask different opinions from the other boys what i get is that they say we are the one that alwaz provoke them. how it is my decision it doesnt matter what i wear or i dont respond to you when you great me. is just so disturbing.
girls lets just take care and stay away from this beast.
bye and take care.

APPRECIATING LIFE

HI EVERYONE?
hope that your week has been fine.
As the saying goes, we pass through death to experience life, well the saying is true and indeed i have just come to realize that the saying is true.
Just the other day i was talking to my friend who happen to be at home due to luck of school fees and also the day before i was talking to another friend and little did i notice after flashing back that almost most of my friends they have just passed through hell to reach where they are right know. is not that right know they are leaving well hell no! is only that you cant differentiate the past and know.
Actually life has just been so unfair to us such that we end up doing things that we never thought we could actually do them. i justfeel so bad whenever i remember my past but what can i do? nothing except to try and work hard to make sure that i have a nice future and hopely my kids wont pass this life that i live in.
sometimes we do have pride and thanks to that we happen to hide all our problems but wait until we open up our hearts whatever one will find there only God knows. only him.
People seem to forget that dressing well isn't everything and that i dont have problem, No, am just hidiund whatver is inside me and trust you me sometimes it just sucks, but what can we do? nothing.
you know what the only thing remaining is just us to appreciate life and take whetever it brings along with it. but also we need to atleast have good friend who we can always count on whenever we need someone to comfort us and a shoulder to cry on. trust you me they reallydo help alot i have past through hell and the only poeple who help me overcome all is God, my family and Friends.

GENDER.

HI EVERYONE?.
hope your weekends were just fine.
Actually i attended another discussion and i was so shocked on how the guys are just behind and how Kenyan's guy's generally don't accept change. and by that i came to agree with the people who always say that they are not romantic, well that's not the case as for know.
you see they all seem to think that once you get to marry me you have all the rights in the world to do with me whatever you what and that we are supposed to be submissive in whatever way no matter what. actually what really hurted was the fact they they all agreed that we are their "propeties" really who said that when poeple get mnarried tghey become mens slaves. i think that we get married becouse we love each other not becouse we are to wash thier clothes and also cook for them and do all those chaos. but we get married to be thier helper and as much as am concerned being a helper i can do whatever you are asking me or rerfuse, it all depend with me.
girls do you agree with me or not, lets hear it post your comments.

DATING

hi everyone?

welcome to the interesting class/session of blogging and share the fun together coz trust you me it's fun just knowing what other people really think differently from you.

When we hear about dating what always comes to our minds? well to me i wont say it for know. let me first ask what do you think about a woman dating a younger man than him?.

There is in some cases you find that a woman has fallen/grown in love with a younger guy than her maybe the gap isn't that big maybe like less than two years, or even one year what do you guys think about that can you say that is love, or well i don't what to say anything about it for know lets hear your comment.

my future

we all have something planned for our future on which gives us something to live for first let me ask, do you think we plan for our future or it's planned for us?. mine i just want a simple one, to have a well paying job on which i love and I'm respected, a very nice house where i will be leaving on my own compound with my family which will be of four members; two kids a husband and i and to have a happy life till death.